Free self-assessment · about 5 minutes

You've already done the work.So why do the same patterns keep taking over?

A gentle, nervous-system-informed reflection for women who know where their patterns come from, yet still get pulled into them during closeness, conflict or separation.

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Your personal Pattern Map arrives by email.

Naming the patterngives you a little more choice.

Jani Weizman

Four familiar responses

What happens when connection stops feeling steady?

Your body may move toward control, distance, disconnection or over-giving. These responses once helped you get through something. This assessment helps you notice which one appears most often now.

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The Guardian

Moves toward control when uncertainty feels unsafe.

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The Runner

Creates distance before closeness can become painful.

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The Vanisher

Disconnects when feeling becomes too much.

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The Giver

Puts others first to protect the connection.

Your result is a starting point for reflection, not a diagnosis or a fixed label.

Nervous-system informed Private and personal Results in about 5 minutes

You've already done the work.So why do the same patterns keep taking over?

What happens when connection stops feeling steady?

The Guardian

The Runner

The Vanisher

The Giver

Here is what came up.

Pattern result

Score interpretation

You've named the pattern.
Now let's make sense of it.

You've already done the work.So why do the same patterns keep taking over?

What happens when connection stops feeling steady?

The Guardian

The Runner

The Vanisher

The Giver

Here is what came up.

Pattern result

Score interpretation

You've named the pattern.Now let's make sense of it.

You've named the pattern.
Now let's make sense of it.